You're lucky to have anyone. You should just take what you can get.

Don't panic. This is a good thing. There is a good chance you can talk her into a three-some so she can "test" the water more.

Girls are more business savvy than we give them credit for. Just like men are always on the lookout for a higher-paying job....so are they. You could always pick up another job at the Gap to keep them.

Personally, I'd just look for another up-and-comer. Here's a few: Hottest Gold Diggers

Yes...you're a cheap bastard, but if you give a little ground here it'll save you a lot of coin to wine and dine the next girl.

All you need to do is let her super-size her McDonald's.

Going from barback to bartender is a big step. You should really encourage her to get that coveted night manager position.

The good news is that this is fixable. I got a few emails about it. I can forward them to you.